In life there are going to be tons of people who are going to evaluate you in different areas of your life.

In business , your boss or bosses will evaluate your level of professionalism, your knowledge, and your general ability to do your job. In school, the board will evaluate whether you are ready to move on, or move up, or even if you just aren’t right for the area of study you have picked. In life, people everywhere will evaluate you. People hiring, people selling, adoption agencies, therapists, in-laws, potential dates, people everywhere. Will pick you clean, of your knowledge and your ability to do something. Eventually we will be evaluated on judgement day but that isn’t something I am qualified to discuss because I still worry about my qualifications some days. Although I know I belong to God so I should not worry. Any way, where I was going….

People everywhere will always evaluate you and judge you on some set scale of skills and aptitude tests and so on. Throughout your whole life, throughout all of that going on, the only evaluation you will ever truly be forced to live with is your own. Some people never sit down and take a good hard look in the mirror. Some people NEVER evaluate themselves. Personally I think it is really important to do so. If you do not think highly of yourself, if you do not stop and think about yourself for just a moment, you will not be able to grow. Not well at least. Its healthy to note that there is room for growth in different areas of your life. It is important for YOU to know what YOU should work on. If you are down on yourself about menial things, then there is no reason to find ways to move on. You can not change how you look. Well not really and sometimes not without some type of surgery. You are beautiful. In every way. But you can loose weight, you can gain weight, you can spend five minutes a day to do your hair, real quick. But appearances should not be and ARE NOT what makes you, YOU. An evaluation rarely includes what you look like. Sit down and actually think about the “inner you” Write in your notebook, YOUR questions and answers..

Unique Advice For Today: Evaluate yourself… Try it, take a good hard look at your inner self.

Some example questions;

• Who are you?

• How do you think other people view you/your personality?

• What do you think your closes friends would say about you to strangers?

• What do you care about? (In the World, In your town, In your life)

• Who is important to you?

• What is an area in your life that concerns you daily?

• What do you think of your friends?

• What do you think of your siblings?

• What do you think about your children?
  

• What do you think of who your children are turning out to be?

• How do you view the people who you are closest with in life?
  

• Do you keep most of your opinions to yourself?

• Are you a considerate person?

• Do you listen when other people need someone to talk to?

• Can your friends/family come to you for advice?

• Can your friends/family count on you for support and encouragement? (Not financially, but more emotionally)

• Do you feel that your problems should be above other peoples problems?

• Do you run to your friends and family when gossip and rumors take hold?

• Do you think everyone should worry about what you are going through?

• Are you working on better your life?
  

• What would you like to do for a permanent living?

• How do you think your friends and family would explain who you were, once you pass away?

• Who do you want to be?

It is hard to evaluate yourself. When I started this post, it had a whole different set of questions. But the more I thought and prayed about it. It seems there are more important things about yourself that need to be considered. Who you are and who you want to be are in the eye of the beholder. It is in you, up to you, and for you. Some things are important and some things really do not matter. The line in between is very very thin. So tread carefully.
In life, your legacy begins with Who YOU are!
“Evaluate Yourself.”
In a later post I will post my answers and my evaluation of my self. I hope this helps you find who you truly want to be. I also hope you figure out who you already are. It is important and YOU MATTER!

~CaveBaby~

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