For years I hated change. Everything about it, was completely unappealing to me.
I have learned though that change is necessary. If not for change things would be pointless.Think about things in your life that you would want to change. Think of all the aspects that make you what you are. Think of the daily tasks and really try to envision what everything around you stands for. If you can take a step back and look, it should be easier to establish what you allow in your life; and what needs to change.
At the moment my little family and I are working on a new schedule again. With that needed to come better habits, lots of mistakes and a load of patience. It has been hard on the attitudes and nerves. But that is fine. I know if we do everyday to the best of our ability. Once we are through; When we can wake up early , eat dinner at a good time, and go to bed on time, the closer we will be to a more functional life. I would love less stress. I think that if we can do what needs done, that it is possible to achieve a greater stress free life.
Change is what is going to bring us to that point. If we don’t choose to change when its needed. I believe it will catch up with us, one day we will be forced to make a change. At one point or another, by choice or not, We will need change. I am sorry to inform you of that. When change comes along it is important to face it head on. Understanding why the change is necessary and why things are in our lives is a huge deal. Its a colossal learning experience.
There are still many things I would like to change. Many things in our lives that need changed. Also a whole lot more of it to come. A lot of firsts, a ton of growth, so much experience to come.
We have two kids. We are working on slowly planning our wedding finally after 8 and a half years, also beginning to look into buying a house. I wanted to pursue my writing career and my husband got a new job. Our two year old is potty training and our 4 almost 5 year old is in school and has been going through a lot of emotional growth lately. Every aspect of our life is in constant change. Especially once we had the babies, the speed dramatically increased on the amount of change per second. It was a huge thing for me to learn to get used to and “deal with”.
Things change, Big change, Little change, Change change change….. All for a greater purpose though. All to bring us to a better place in our reality. One day we will be able to look back and say we made it through.
I really like diamonds. There a saying I love, that goes….
“A diamond is just a piece of charcoal that handled stress exceptionally well”
I love that. A piece of charcoal had to go through severe change to become a beautiful diamond. To be what it was intended to be.
So if you are in need of change right now in your life; I truly encourage you to list things out. Then find ways to pursue making a difference that is necessary for your future. Understanding your own reality is a huge deal. What is going to make you, you? How high is your change going to bring you? Where do you want to be?
Who are you??